Brig, Soren & Reidar-
Dis-obey for the sake of Good. It is your duty to Dis-obey when you must. Do no collaborate with Evil. Gandhi is a hero for dis-obeying the state, and prison in a non-violent way.
You MUST protest evil, or you become evil yourself.
I have a moral duty NOT to comply with your mother’s evil behavior. I must protest, and protect you from evil. It is a moral obligation.