Murder your Husband

In France, you can murder your husband- and be celebrated as a hero, she has almost 1 million signatures of support.

Brig, Soren and Reidar- Just repeat that statement above… I only have 50 letters people have written to support your release, and they have been intimidated by your mother. Just ask Shannon what your mother said to her for writing a letter on your behalf.

Our society is totally out of control. Not providing any responsibility when a woman commits evil acts.

Frenchwoman convicted of killing rapist husband spared more jail time

Valérie Bacot (C) arrives flanked by relatives and journalists at the Chalon-sur-Saone Courthouse, central-eastern France, on June 25, 2021.
Valérie Bacot (C) arrives flanked by relatives and journalists at the Chalon-sur-Saone Courthouse, central-eastern France, on June 25, 2021. © Jeff Pachoud, AFP

Text by:FRANCE 24Follow4 min

A Frenchwoman who killed the man who raped her for years was on Friday handed a four-year jail term, but walked free as most of her sentence was suspended.

Valérie Bacot, who was just 12 when Daniel Polette raped her for the first time. He later became her husband and pimp.

Three years of her four-year term were suspended and the rest she has already served in pre-trial detention.

The case of Bacot, who wrote a book about her experiences published last month called “Everybody Knew”, has become a rallying cause for feminists in France at a time when more women are breaking their silence on sexual assault.

Bacot, 40, admitted to shooting Daniel Polette dead in 2016. Polette was her stepfather, who later married her and forced her into prostitution. 

A jury in Chalon-sur-Saone, central France, found Bacot guilty of the murder. She was sentenced to one year in prison and a three-year suspended sentence.

Abuse starts aged 12

The prosecutor had earlier requested that Bacot should not be sent to prison, saying he didn’t consider her a danger to society. 

The trial showed the degree of control and influence Polette – 25 years Bacot’s senior – had over her.

“Yes, I killed him but if I had not done it, my children would have,” Bacot said.

Polette arrived in Bacot’s life in 1992 as her mother’s companion. A few months later, she said, the sexual abuse started. She was 12 when he began raping her, Bacot said.

Polette’s sisters reached out to a social worker and he was arrested in 1995 and convicted of sexual assaults, spending two years in prison. 

Polette then returned to the family home and started abusing Bacot again. 

“When he came back, he said he would leave me alone. My mother had forgiven him. But it started again. Following a rape I got pregnant,” Bacot said. She was 17 at the time. 

Her mother threw her out of the house and she started living with Polette, whom she described as having total control over her life. 

He did not allow her to work or use contraception. She had three other children. 

“He was beating me, slaps then punches, he throttled me. He was beating and then things were going better,” she said, adding he also threatened her with a handgun. 

‘A monster’

In 2002, he forced her into prostitution, still controlling all of her actions.

In March 2016, following a violent prostitution-related situation, she shot Polette with the gun. Her children helped her bury the body, an act for which they were given suspended prison sentences. 

Bacot was arrested by police the following year and imprisoned, before being released under judicial supervision in 2018 pending trial. 

The psychologist who examined her said the protection of her children was key in Bacot’s reaction. In 2016, she feared Polette would assault her 14-year old daughter and force her into prostitution.

A petition in favor of Bacot has gathered over 710,000 signatures. 

Family members came to the court to say they don’t regret Polette’s death. His brother and sisters described him as a “monster”.

“The person I thank the most in the world is Valérie, because she killed him. She did what I should have done for a long time,” said Polette’s sister, 59. She said he raped her when she was 12. 

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Dr. Denis Prieur, a psychiatrist, said that at the time of the domestic abuse, Bacot no longer had free will. “She was not able to turn to the law (for assistance) because her husband was always there.” 

Now, “she has become somebody” and is not “a thing” anymore, he said. 

Bacot’s case echoes that of another French woman, Jacqueline Sauvage, who was convicted of shooting and killing her allegedly violent husband. Sauvage was granted a presidential pardon in 2016, allowing her to get out of prison. 

Sauvage had been sentenced to 10 years in prison for fatally shooting her husband three times in the back with a hunting rifle in 2012. During the trial, she said her husband had beaten her for 47 years. The couple’s adult daughters also said he had abused them. 

(FRANCE 24 with AFP and AP)